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Quickly, earnestly Emma Goldman, the priestess
of anarchy, exiled from Russia, feared by police, and now a guest
of St. Louis Anarchists, gave this answer to my question.
I found her at No. 1722 Oregon avenue, an
oldstyle twostory brick house, the home of a sympathizer--not
a relative as has been stated.
I was received by a goodnatured, portly
German woman, and taken back to a typical German diningroom--everything
clean and neat as soap and water could make them. After carefully
dusting a chair for me with her apron, she took my name back to
the bold little freethinker. I was welcome. I found Emma
Goldman sipping her coffee and partaking of bread and jelly, as
her morning's repast. She was neatly clad in a percale shirt
waist and skirt, with white collar and cuffs, her feet encased
in a loose pair of cloth slippers. She doesn't look like a Russian
Nihilist who will be sent to Siberia if she ever crosses the frontier
of her native land.
"Do you believe in marriage?"
I asked.
"I do not," answered the fair
little Anarchist, as promptly as before. "I believe that
when two people love each other that no judge, minister or court,
or body of people, have anything to do with it. They themselves
are the ones to determine the relations which they shall hold
with one another. When that relation becomes irksome to either
party, or one of the parties, then it can be as quietly terminated
as it was formed."
Miss Goldman gave a little nod of her head
to emphasize her words, and quite a pretty head it was, crowned
with soft brown hair, combed with a bang and brushed to one side.
Her eyes are the honest blue, her complexion clear and white.
Her nose tough rather broad and of a Teutonic type, was well
formed. She is short of stature, with a wellrounded figure.
Her whole type is more German than Russian. The only serious
physical failing that she has is in her eyes. She is so extremely
nearsighted that with glasses she can scarcely distinguish
print.
"The alliance should be formed,"
she continued, "not as it is now, to give the woman a support
and home, but because the love is there, and that state of affairs
can only be brought about by an internal revolution, in short,
Anarchy."
She said this as calmly as though she had
just expressed an ordinary everyday fact, but the glitter
in her eyes showed the "internal revolutions" already
at work in her busy brain.
"What does Anarchy promise woman?"
"It holds everything for woman--freedom,
equality--everything that woman has not now."
"Isn't woman free?"
"Free! She is the slave of her husband
and her children. She should take her part in the business world
the same as the man; she should be his equal before the world,
as she is in the reality. She is as capable as he, but when she
labors she gets less wages. Why? Because she wears skirts instead
of trousers."
"But what is to become of the ideal
home life, and all that now surrounds the mother, according to
a man's idea?"
"Ideal home life, indeed! The woman,
instead of being the household queen, told about in story books,
is the servant, the mistress, and the slave of both husband and
children. She loses her own individuality entirely, even her
name she is not allowed to keep. She is the mistress of John
Brown or the mistress of Tom Jones; she is that and nothing else.
That is the way I think of her."
Miss Goldman has a pleasant accent. She
rolls her r's and changes her r's into v's and viceversa,
with a truly Russian pronunciation. She gesticulates a great
deal. When she becomes excited her hands and feet and shoulders
all help to illustrate her meanings.
"What would you do with the children
of the Anarchistic era?"
"The children would be provided with
common homes, big boarding schools, where they will be properly
cared for and educated and in every way given as good, and in
most cases better, care than they would receive in their own homes.
Very few mothers know how to take proper care of their children,
anyway. It is a science only a very few have learned."
"But the women that desire a home life
and the care of their own children, the domestic woman, what of
her?"
"Oh, of course, the women that desire
could keep their children home and confine themselves as strictly
to domestic duties as they desired. But it would give those women
who desire something broader, a chance to attain any height they
desired. With no poor, and no capitalists, and one common purse,
this earth will afford the heaven that the Christians are looking
for in another world."
She gazed contemplatively in the bottom
of the empty coffee cup, as though she saw in imagination the
ideal State, already an actuality.
"Who will take care of the children?"
I asked, breaking in upon her reverie.
"Every one," she answered, "has
tastes and qualifications suiting them to some occupation. I
am a trained nurse. I like to care for the sick. So it will
be with some women. They will want to care for and teach the
children.
"Won't the children lose their love
for their parents and feel the lack of their companionship?"
A thought of the affectionate little darlings being relegated
to a sort of an orphan asylum crossed my mind.
"The parents will have the same opportunities
of gaining their confidences and affections as they have now.
They can spend just as much time there as they please or have
them with them just as often as desired. They will be the children
of love--healthy, strongminded--and not as now, in most
cases, born of hate and domestic dissensions."
"What do you call love?"
"When a man or woman finds some quality
or qualities in another that they admire and has an overweening
desire to please that person, even to the sacrificing of personal
feeling; when there is that subtle something drawing them together,
that those who love recognize, and feel it in the inmost fiber
of their being, then I call that love." She finished speaking
and her face was suffused with a rosy blush.
"Can a person love more than one at
a time?"
"I don't see why not--if they find
the same lovable qualities in several persons. What should prevent
one loving the same things in all of them?
"If we cease to love the man or woman
and find some one else, as I said before, we talk it over together
and quietly change the mode of living. The private affairs of
the family need not then be talked over in the courts and become
public property. No one can control the affections, therefore
there should be no jealousies.
"Heartaches? Oh, yes," she said,
sadly, "but not hatred because he or she has tired of the
relations. The human race will always have heartaches as long
as the heart beats in the breast.
"My religion," she laughingly
repeated. "I was of the Hebrew faith when a girl--you know
I am a Jewess--but now I am an atheist. No one has been able
to prove either the inspiration of the Bible or the existence
of a God to my satisfaction. I believe in no hereafter except
the hereafter that is found by the physical matter existing in
the human body. I think that lives again in some other form,
and I don't think that anything once created over is lost--it
goes on and on in first once shape, then another. There is no
such thing as a soul--it is all the physical matter."
Pretty Miss Goldman finished speaking, and
a delicate flush mounted to her cheek as I asked her if she intended
to marry.
"No; I don't believe in marriage for
others, and I certainly should not preach one thing and practice
another."
She sat in an easy attitude with one leg
crossed over the other. She is in every sense a womanly looking
woman, with masculine mind and courage.
She laughed as she said there were fifty
police at her lecture on Wednesday night, and she added, "If
there had of been a bomb thrown I would surely have been blamed
for it."
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